Sunday

Gratitude is the key that unlocks every door.

Many times we focus on what we do not have, we focus on the 'lack' of what is. This energy leaves us feeling dark, which results in that heaviness, which in turn attracts more lack, darkness, and heavy energy.

It can be very difficult to feel grateful when we feel like the world is out to get us, and that everything is going wrong in our lives. However, the more ways we can express gratitude, the more we will start being surrounded in the light, and the feeling of that heaviness will start to lift, and we will find that we start feeling better and attracting more good things.

How do we start? Find something, anything, you are grateful for. It can be something small... When you express the gratitude, feel it with warm light emitting from your heart.....

  • I am grateful for the fuzzy socks on my feet.
So simple, yet it will shift the energy ever so slightly....
  • I am grateful for this chair I sit upon.
True gratitude for the small things in life, on a daily basis, will continue to shift the energy around you...
  • I am grateful to be able to smell the aroma of this rose.
  • I am grateful to be able to see this amazing rose starting to bloom at sunrise.
  • I am grateful to be able to see this drop of dew on the rose.
You can express your gratitude at any time, and take it anywhere with you. Even if you are feeling distressed standing in a long line at a store...
  • I am grateful that I have the means to make this purchase.
There is always, always, always something we all can be grateful for. The more gratitude we express, we will find we hold the key to unlock doors with abundant blessings....

What are you grateful for?

Alethea Anderson

Saturday

New year, new flow, old stuff has got to go!

Nothing like a fresh, new year to do some purging! Did you know that getting rid of the old energy (and things attached), allows new energy (and things attached) to come in to your life? New year, new flow, old stuff has got to go!

Start with your holiday goodies, how many years of wrapping rolls and bows do you have (that you'll never use?) You keep 'saving' them for next year, yet keep buying new stuff anyways... Out with it!

It's also a great time to organize your papers (tax season is coming). Gather what you need for taxes, and purge all the excess paperwork you no longer need. Magazines you already read, coupons you never used, receipts you'll never need again... File what you need and out with the rest!

How about the kitchen, what's hiding in the freezer that is well past its prime? What jars and bottles are in the fridge door that have expired and really should go? toss 'em! What old cans and boxes do you have in cabinets? Time to clear out the expired stuff... How about dishes, containers, stray lids that you just won't use again? Recycle or donate!

Bedroom... old clothes you won't wear... old clothes that does not fit... old sheets you don't use on the bed...

Bathrooms... old cosmetics you never use (but keep because how much you paid for them), they are not doing any good sitting there, out! Near empty lotions that have already been replaced, old perfumes, etc...etc... There's a time to let it go, the time is now!

Garage... how many boxes or tubs do you have, that you've not opened in years? Now is the time to determine if you really need them...

Sometimes it may be difficult to 'let go' of some things, but once you clean up, clear out, and find fresh new space that is tidy and organized, you'll feel fantastical!

Also, know that whatever you have to clean up, is not as big of a mess as NYC after NYE!

(Note, recycle or donate what you can, or even have a garage sale!)

Alethea Anderson
MultiMediaMom.com

Friday

Happy New Year 2016

Happy New Year! WOW, another year has flown by at warp speed... As I welcome this new year with open arms, I am realizing what a momentous time it will be. I'm starting a new job, my daughter will be graduating high school, starting college, and turning 18.

Among so many other amazing and exciting things I have visioned to be taking place!

As I am excited for these new and amazing things, I reflect back on 2015, the sands of time have now passed and that year is but a memory. Let the waters wash away the negative, and freshen the path for the new and positive. Let the door open and create new memories in 2016!

Each year people often make resolutions; to lose weight, to break bad habits, to exercise more, to eat healthy, etc...etc... However if people do not stick to their resolutions they then feel as if they've failed themselves...

This year simply have a goal to be better. Be kinder. Be happier. Feel good if you take a walk, but don't beat yourself up if you don't. Feel good if you eat some carrots, but don't beat yourself up if you eat cake. Do what makes YOU feel GOOD.

Smile more. Say more loving and kind words. Look at the blue skies more. Smell the flowers more. Hug your pets more.

Do happy. Feel happy. Be happy.

Put the HAPPY in your Happy New Year!

Alethea Anderson
MultiMediaMom.com


Saturday

Human Observation: Parents Wronging Their Kids, Pink vs Blue


Sugar and Spice, Dolls are Nice, and Pink is for little Girls...
Snails and Frogs, Trucks in Mud Bogs, and Blue is for little Boys...

What nonsense!

I grew up learning the certain-colors-are-for-certain-genders thing. Granted, I was never forced to conform to this. As much as I loved playing school teacher, I adored pretending to be a cowboy with my thumb gun or Spider-man shooting webs from my wrists. As much as I loved dressing my Barbie Dolls in foo-foo clothes, I loved my Hotwheels cars and building for hours with Lego blocks.

There likely is some sort of historic reason the pink/blue crap came to be (which I did not care to research for this blog) it boggles me that it is still a 'thing'. But now it's WORSE.

Give me a break that they make Lego sets in 'pink' now...geared for girls! Fairys and flowers for girls... Lego sets for boys, castles and dragons in dark colors (side note, I LOVED my Lego castle when I was a kid, I got it when I was 12, I wanted it SO  badly for Christmas, when I was 12. Back when 12 year old kids were still actually kids)




What brought me to this topic is that for my work, I'm often in large chain stores. Recently we took on a project which has me smack dab in the middle of the toy aisle in several of these 'big box' stores. Spending so much time in these stores I noticed a few things that really opened my eyes.

I have heard multiple parents intentionally redirect their children to a different aisle in order to steer t them towards gender specific toys....

Some examples;

A young girl wanted to look at the skateboards, Mom said "skateboards are for boys" and kept walking...

A little boy wanted to get a doll, his Mom said "no this aisle is all pink girl stuff, let's go over to the aisle with toys for boys..." and grabbed his hand taking him to another aisle, though he resisted and really wanted a doll.

A young couple were in the store shopping for a gift for a child, the male was inquiring to the female what he should get the small girl. He was suggesting a doll for the girl, the female suggested some coloring supplies to draw...

Just let kids be kids... Don't direct them towards a certain toy, let them choose!

Alethea Anderson
MultiMediaMom.com


Friday

The Wizard of Oz was based on one of a series of books about Oz

Fun Fact!

I found out not too long ago that the "The Wizard of Oz" was based on a mere portion of a series of books authored by L. Frank Baum starting with "The Wonderful Wizard of Oz" written in 1900.

I had NO idea that there were multiple books written from different character perspectives!

The version we all know and love is based on book #1. However, as you can see below, there are books written from other perspectives as well!

1. The Wonderful Wizard of Oz (1900)
2. The Marvelous Land of Oz (1904)
3. Ozma of Oz (1907)
4. Dorothy and the Wizard in Oz (1908)
5. The Road to Oz (1909)
6. The Emerald City of Oz (1910)
7. The Patchwork Girl of Oz (1913)
8. Tik-Tok of Oz (1914)
9. The Scarecrow of Oz (1915)
10. Rinktink in Oz (1916)
11. The Lost Princess of Oz (1917)
12. The Tin Woodman of Oz (1918)
13. The Magic of Oz (1919)
14. Glinda of Oz (1920)
15. The Royal Book of Oz (1920

It was news to me, it may be news to you too!

Alethea Anderson
MultiMediaMom.com


Human Interaction/Reaction Observation

The work I do involves visiting major chain retailers within my territory. One particular chain store is undergoing a change to their cosmetics departments due to high shrink (theft). The theft of cosmetics is HUGE ranging in tens of thousands of dollars per year (per store).

...and people wonder why cosmetics are so expensive...

Due to this fact they are closing in the cosmetics departments to a 'bull pen' style where everyone must enter and leave through one small opening, and cosmetics must be purchased before they leave the area.

I have seen this design implemented at many different locations within this particular chain thus far, and the stores have been very pleased as it has decreased shrink significantly. Of all the stores I've visited, I've never seen the bull pen met with resistance, until TODAY.

It was so strange, but literally within a 10 minute span I heard about 5 customers become unglued when they were told they had to make their cosmetic purchase at that register.

As I heard it happen time and time again, I first was thinking it was grumpy customer day. Then I found a common angle and I realized what the issue was. It was the energy and the attitude of the employees in the department!

All the other stores greeted each person as they entered the department with a "hello" and a warm smile. They informed them that due to security reasons all cosmetics would need to be purchased before they left the department. This quick greeting and explanation met no resistance as people were aware right off the get go...

At this particular store the associates working in the department were talking in their native tongue in a personal conversation and did not acknowledge customers as they entered. As customers got their items and attempted to walk out, they were met with the words "you need to buy that here", no explanation or anything...

I began to see how this could be frustrating to customers and why customers might feel a little ambushed.

  • I do understand that people want to make ONE purchase in a store...
  • I do understand that people are STILL shopping....

BUT

  • Customers do NOT realize that cosmetics are tiny, pocket-able and stolen like CRAZY.

One woman who practically had a COW was next to me muttering about how it was a load of BS that she had to do that...

I calmly explained "I know it is really inconvenient, but this department deals with a huge amount of theft and they are simply trying to keep that in check..."

She nodded, went about her shopping and bought her items at the register.

A second lady had a bit more of a cow, her hubby hollered over the divider that she had to buy her items before leaving. She huffed and puffed... I did not speak 'to' her but I said under my breath kind of talking to myself... "wow...of all the (stores in this chain) I've been to, this is the only store that I've seen people get mad about having to purchase at the cosmetics register..."

She did not acknowledge my comment, but got her goods and went to the register to pay without incident....

I fully believe that the energy put forth creates an energy in return.... Put out a negative vibe, get a negative vibe back... Put out a happy, understanding vibe, get that in return...

Alethea Anderson
MultiMediaMom.com


Thursday

Only in Darkness Can You See The Stars

only in the darkness can you see the stars
- Martin Luther King Jr.
A very powerful message...

Sometimes it is not until you are surrounded with the darkness that sometimes creeps up in life, that you awaken and realize that the stars are always there. Even when we can't see them, they're there. Even when the sun is the brightest star in the sky, all the other stars are still shining. Their brightness always exists,

This brings you to realize to have faith. The faith that the stars are there. The faith they they are shining. The faith to know that when everything seems dark, the light is still there, still shining for you in all ways.

Sometimes it takes the darkness to see things in a different light... ;)

Alethea Anderson
MultiMediaMom.com